Monday, September 27, 2010


So Fooker as I said has been in and out of my life so we will touch on that subject here and there.
In walks..."Wonder"

Wonder got his nickname from a friend of mine and I will leave out the details as to why that is his nickname, it is not important. As most .. no no strike that, as ALL of the men I have met since my divorce, I have found them online.
Wonder was my first ONLINE man. It was funny and he is a great man for putting up with what I put him through. So on this website.. which is not really a dating site I met wonder.  I liked his profile because it had pictures of him and his family. This made him seem more real, and not a crazy stalker man. Though I did often tell him he was an axe murderer.. LOL so he sent me a picture of him with an axe looking all crazy. Good times. So, in getting to know Wonder I would send him an email with 20 questions. Of course, keep in mind he is a man... so I did not get the answers back in an email. Wonder was good enough to give them to me over the phone. The first time I met Wonder was (yikes I know.. wrong) at my house. I invited him over for dinner. We had spaghetti.. Good conversation, but I knew before I met him that we would only be friends. I told him that as well. OK OK.. honestly.. friends with fun.. not benes but fun. At the time I met Wonder he was hooked on this woman that was NOT good for him in anyway. She was USING him and I hated her for that. Though it was his choice and I had to just give him my opinion and let him know that  I would support him in whatever or whoever he chose to do. Now, I cant say that I was completely innocent with Wonder. We did have some pretty hot make out sessions.. but we did NOT have SEX.. ever.. (in reality). I remember I  went to a friends house for a party and the X was there. It was his weekend with the lil one. I couldn't wait to leave that party and go to Wonders house to hang out.  I think part of it is just something, someone new.. I love to learn who people are and how they function. I just tend to get hurt along the way.
  Wonder has a thing for red heads. . In walks red. This woman, I thought she would fit him perfectly. I remember telling him that he should go for her. He should forget the other woman and focus on Red.  He did and now they are married. They have had some difficult times but have found their way back to each other. Yah them. I was not really able to hang out with Wonder any longer once he found Red.. she had an issue with me, and as hard as it is to let a friend go, I knew I had to so that he could find love. It wasn't until they were having troubles that Red realized I do not want Wonder for more than anything than a friend. So, now we are all able to talk and have a good time together.
  As I am sitting here writing this, in my head, I am wondering when is the next time I will be kissed. Kissed with that passion that we all want and love....
To Wonder I say thanks for letting me "practice" with you.. and am I still in the Top 3? LOL

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

After the Big D.....

How fitting that today I will write about him, because it is his birthday.

What is a girl to do? So after divorce things can get crazy. There was someone I always had a bit of a flirtatious nature with.. but would NEVER act on it, heck I was married. Well opportunistic person I am found a way to work this man into my life .. hehehe. I was moving and wouldn't you know it I had to get a dishwasher and stove... Now, I work for a company that has 4 box trucks, but this did not deter me. I called him up and asked if he could help me pick up my items and install them.. hehehehe my plan is in action. I told him I needed someone with a truck.. As we see here ladies, he is a man and he did believe me, even though he used to work with me and knows that I have ample truck resources. So off we go to pick up my appliances..back at the new house, he is installing my stove.. mmm to make my move, RING RING... wouldn't you know it moms are always a callin at the wrong times. Mom and Bill came over - needless to say, lil boy flew out of the house so fast. Oh well.. I will have to scheme again. AND of course I did! MOM to the rescue ...
So, moving to a new house and only one TV..will not work, even though I don't even watch TV you must have one in your room, right? Talking with mom and she has an extra TV to give me, but she lives in a Condo and STAIRSSSSS.. how could i possibly carry this TV it is massive and heavy, I need a man to do it. HA!!!!!! RIng, Ring... Hello, I need help again and By the way, my mom needs help with her microwave, you don't mind do you? So, he says yes and once again off we go, this time Jaycien is with us and we are driving to my moms in snowy weather. Butt warmers too the rescue. We go to my moms and lalala get things done, thanks mom... on our way to my house now. Here is where the good and the bad start. We get to my house and bring the TV in to my room and set it down. Jaycien is out in the car in the garage waiting. I must find a way to do this. BE strong (or stupid) Amber!!! I told him to come to me I wanted to thank him. YIKES, I kissed him. (forgive me mom, I have always taken initiative). Needless to say that was a strange car ride back to his house. Conversation went like this.. Him "Really, huh?" Me "Yah really, wow.. kinda thought you felt the same."  Him, "Hmm, just kinda surprised me."  Me, "sorry??? or not?". Now we have to talk and figure out what comes next. Well that was a fun year... more to come? Tell me do you want more? Shall I move onto another story? I have lots and they are ready to flow out, some short and some long. I can always write more about this person here and there for he has been in and out of my life for the past two years.. and though I love him dearly, he is kind of an Ass!  

Getting a feel for this thing we call blogging...

Obviously, I am new to this and have no idea which direction I want to go. I am thinking more on the lines of my dating history, which will give everyone a great laugh. Although, if I do that it will need to be adults only. I have also thought about writing about my daily irritations, which when you come down to it, it is mainly men and their stupidity. So, here I am not having a clue which direction this is going to take. Welcome to the journey with me. We shall begin!